Questions for Growth Groups and Personal Reflection

Read 2 Samuel 2:12 - 3:39

As you read the passage or listened to the sermon, what stood out to you or stayed with you?

1. Resisting the Kingdom by Force (2:12-32)

• Where do you see the same Abner-like instinct in yourself — knowing what God has said, yet resisting it because you want to stay in control?

• What is one area of life where you are still fighting a battle you cannot win, instead of submitting to Jesus’ good rule?

2. Seeking the Kingdom for Selfish Gain (2 Samuel 3:1-21)

• In what ways can serving in church become more about being noticed than about honouring Christ?

• What helps you check your motives so that you serve Jesus rather than your own reputation?

3. Undermining the Kingdom by Revenge and Envy (vv.22-39)

• Where are you most tempted to compare yourself with others or feel threatened by their gifts or opportunities?

• How might envy or self-protection show itself subtly in your relationships, and what would it look like to choose Christlike humility instead?

Spend some time praying about the above.